Wednesday, December 22, 2010

DECEMBER 22, 2010


Sorry I've been MIA the last couple of weeks - it's been crazy and chaotic, as you can well imagine.  I'll try to recap as best I can...

Update on my situation:
I went on December 8th for my ultrasound and mammogram.  When the breast surgeon sent the RX over, they only wanted to have the u/s and mammo done on the left side.  However, the folks at Valley Radiology were adamant that we should do both, which I felt much more comfortable with.

I went in, not sure what to expect - I've spoken with folks that have horror stories about their mammograms, and (as always) went in expecting the worst, esp b/c I'm not exactly well endowed.  However, I have to say that the tests were both easy, painless, and quick.  I went in for the mammogram first, and while it isn't something I'd like to have happen daily, it was a fairly easy test.  The mammo tech was funny when I mentioned how easy the test is - she reminded me that, compared to having a camera stuck up your rear end yearly, a mammo WOULD seem easy!  :)

I then went into the u/s room, and the tech was great, showing me what she was seeing on the screen, and explaining the difference between breast tissue, muscle, and skin.  Very cool, since the only u/s I've ever paid attention to was when I was pregnant - thankfully, she didn't see any babies!  LOL!

Now, par for the course with me, this test was not without an unusual result.  The u/s tech seemed to concentrate on a particular area of my right breast (not the one with the lump...), and after she left to examine the pictures in more detail, they took me in for another mammogram picture.  I was, obviously, VERY nervous at the time.  All I kept thinking was, I came in for the left, they found cancer in the right, and I'm done for.  *sigh*  Luckily, the mammo tech was smart enough to realize that the area of concern was in the same region as my port scar, and marked the scar with something to differentiate the scar tissue from the breast tissue.  And, thankfully, the area of concern ended up being built-up scar tissue, and nothing more.  They sent me home with my pictures and a note deeming me normal (how funny!).

On the way home, I was flipping through the radio stations and, appropriately enough, the song "
If You're Going Through Hell" by Rodney Atkins came on.  You may remember that this song was very popular the summer I was going through chemo, and became my rally cry.  It seemed perfect that this song came on right after I went through all of this.  Again, amazing things happen when you least expect them.

So, all in all, I'm back to being cancer-free, far as we know.  January will bring another PET scan and more worrying until I get the test results.  Hoping for good news.

December 13th was my two-year mark for the end of my chemotherapy.  Hard to imagine where I am now, as compared to two years ago.  I worked out with my trainer that night, and pushed harder than I have before.  It helps, having the comparison and the history to help me get through mentally.

I posted on facebook today that my trainer helps me realize that, often, the limitations I feel are self-imposed, and it's amazing what I can do when I don't have the time to talk myself out of it.  True in a lot of situation, would you agree?  Think about it....

Later:


Again, apologies for being late in getting this posted.  But, better late than never!

Dad is home, recovering from his surgery, which took place last Wednesday.  He is doing well, and recovering beautifully.  I don't think he's agree with that statement, but I see improvements each day.  He's moving around better, eating well, and his mood is great.

My brother Jim and his fiancee Tom came into town on Tuesday, right before the surgery, so they got to spend a little time with Dad before he went in.  Wednesday brought some tense moments, but the doctor is very confident that he got all of the cancer.

The next couple of days were hard on Dad, obviously, and hard on Mom as she was trying to juggle the boys, Dad, etc.  (She's so strong and amazing....)  Friday came, and Dad was given the all clear to come home.  He's been resting at the house all weekend, and yesterday went to the doctor's for his surgical follow-up and to get his staples out.  I think that will help in the healing process - those are NOT comfortable!  We spent most of the day on Monday at the house, and while I'm fairly certain we wore Dad out, we all enjoyed the time we had.

Dad got confirmation yesterday that his tumor was indeed cancer, and stage three at that.  It was a shock to everyone, b/c we know from experience how close that is to stage four.  The doctor did say, with complete confidence, that he's sure the cancer was contained and they got it all in the surgery.  There is no need for chemo or radiation, which is a blessing.  And, Dad doesn't have to go back to the drs until May, for his 6 month check-up.  Truly, a Christmas miracle!

Jim and Tom leave today to head to Christmas celebration with Tom's family in the Carribbean (nice, huh?), and I think we are all looking forward to a quiet holiday weekend.  While it's wonderful to have family in town, it's been a week of chaos and craziness, so the downtime will be a blessing for all of us.  Levi is sick (with a cold, and he's workinng in Tucson - good times), Mom is apparently sick (probably wore herself down with everything this week), and I'm going to the store today to stock up on Vitamin C and other immune-system building supplements.  :)

Will update more as I have information, but for now, thanks so much for the prayers and good thoughts.  They have helped enormously, and we are all so grateful. 

Comments:


I'm gonna ask a totally stupid question, but what do they mean by stage 3? In lymphoma, the difference between stage 2 and stage 3 is that in stage 2, the cancer is all on one side of the diaphragm (in my case, above), and in stage 3 it is on both sides (so in another lymph node, for example). I had assumed, until I read this post, that that was true for all cancers, but I guess not?

Regardless, I'm glad he's doing well and the docs think they got it all — both good news!
December 22, 2010 at 2:10 PM

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

DECEMBER 8, 2010


As my last post said, Dad's home and doing well.  He's up, moving around and enjoying life.  He seems to be in good spirits, and we are all anxiously awaiting the surgery date.  Dad and Mom went to the doctor's on Monday to discuss the new surgery plans, and they are both comfortable with the new doctor as well as the gameplan.  Basically, the doctor will make a small incision (about 4 inches) above the belly button, along with two laproscopic incisions on his left side.  The two small incisions will be used for the camera and tool, and the large incision will be used for the removal of the kidney once it's detached.  Recovery time will be about 3-4 weeks, with about 2-5 days in the hospital.  The dr seems to feel that the remaining kidney will be able to pick up the function with no issues, and that Dad will be off and running (so to speak) within a month or so.  The bone scan indicated that there's been no metastasizing of the cancer, which is a good thing.  Basically, the doctor told Mom and Dad that he's very lucky he fell and we found this - the alternative wouldn't be good at all.  Thank goodness he fell...

I went to the breast surgeon yesterday, and it appears that the lump is gone (likely a cyst).  She did an in-office ultrasound yesterday, and there's a small shadow in the area (shadowing from the cyst or a fibrous adenoma), so she's sending me for an ultrasound and mammogram today.  Either of those options are harmless, so both are good.  :)  However, she's being cautious given my history, which I'm grateful for.  I expect that there will be no issues, and that when I got back for a follow-up on January 13th, all will be well.

Will let you all know when Dad's surgery date is - hoping to get it today... 


Later:

Surgery date for Dad



Dad's surgery date is set....next Wednesday, 12/15 in the morning.  

Friday, December 3, 2010

DECEMBER 3, 2010


Dad came home from the hospital yesterday, and as I understand it is enjoying being home much more than he liked the hospital.  Not surprising, given the fact that I don't think my father can sit in one place for more than a few moments at a time (sounds like someone else I know.....me, maybe?).

Doctor's appointment on Monday to discuss options for surgery.  My doctor's appointment is on tuesday, so a full week overall.  Hopefully, we will all have good news next week.

Now, to get rid of this cold...

Comments:

Whidbey Woman said...
Keep thinking positive!!!!
December 3, 2010 at 7:33 PM
Blogger Tina said...

Glad to hear he's home, Michelle. Keeping you both in my prayers!
December 3, 2010 at 9:12 PM

Thursday, December 2, 2010

DECEMBER 2, 2010



Day 5: Dad is still in the hospital, though it looks like he might come home today.  He had a bone scan yesterday, and the internist isn't comfortable releasing Dad until he sees the results.

Mom and Dad took a call yesterday from the urologist, who consulted with a colleague on Dad's case.  Apparently, the original urologist (Dr. Chung) still has concerns about Dad's back and how it will handle the surgery.  He consulted with another Dr (Dr. H - I can't remember his name, so we'll pretend that's it), who has experience in a surgical technique that uses laproscopic surgery to remove the kidney, through incisions lower on the abdomen, rather than a single large incision higher up on the abdomen.  It sounds like this will have less overall effect on Dad, but there are still a lot of questions (obviously).  Mom and Dad have a pre-op appointment on Monday to discuss.  I'm hoping to go with them.

Thanks again for all the love and support - it's definitely a blessing to have you all rooting for him (and me).  Here's hoping for good news overall!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

NOVEMBER 30, 2010


First, I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving.  Ours was, um, long.  And, not in a good way.

Over the weekend, we have had two major things happen.  First (and, in my opinion, the most important) is that my father is in the hospital.  He fell a couple of weeks ago, and had some back pain due to it.  We thought it was getting better, but over the weekend, the pain came back worse than ever.  He asked my mom to take him to the ER here in AZ Saturday night, and they admitted him.  They did a CT scan (assuming he was dealing with kidney stones), and found a 4-5cm *something* on his kidney.  Obviously, this was cause for concern, especially because the urologist doesn't feel that this is the cause of the pain.

They did an MRI yesterday, and found potential issues with his spine.  As a result, they also did an X-ray, and we expect the results of both today.  There has been talk of the *something* being a tumor, and obviously that's going to have to be investigated.  Right now, there are two separate issues - the back pain, and the kidney.  As I said, the doctor doesn't seem to feel that they are related issues.  It seems as if the back pain allowed them to find the kidney issue.  Thank goodness.

Right now, while we'd like to hope that this is going to be nothing more than a bruise, we are planning for the very real possibility that my father could have kidney cancer.  I have been doing some preliminary research, and it looks like (if that's the case), we caught it early.  Always a good thing.  We should have more information today, and I will let you all know.  (My dad just texted me - they moved him to a suite-like room, and he's now worried that this is to offset bad news.)

On top of this, over the weekend, I found a lump on my left breast.  *sigh*  I was able to get in to see my doctor yesterday, and he thinks it's just a cyst.  However, given the circumstances, no one wants to take any chances, so I have an appointment with a breast surgeon next week to get an ultrasound done and to determine whether I need to worry.  Until then, I'll try not to worry too much.  :)

So, if you have time, good through, good vibes, and prayers are welcome and appreciated.  I'll update on both accounts as soon as I can. 

Comments:

Of course, I hope that there are no cancers and that the back pain is resolve-able.

If it is at all helpful, my brother-in-law had kidney cancer that was caught early because of some other problem. That was 10 or more years ago, and he's had no problems since then.
November 30, 2010 at 8:59 AM
OpenID dcwriting said...
Michelle, you have one hell of a strong family. You will get through anything and you will always have someone to lean on. Hopefully this all turns out to be nothing so you won't have anything to get through though except normal day to day life (which can in and of itself be a struggle!). I send my thoughts and prayers out there to you and your father.

Danielle (Ashley's friend from the bridal party).
November 30, 2010 at 10:57 AM

Later:


Quick update on my dad: MRI came back confirming that that *something* on his tumor is definitely solid, and was picking up the contrast from the MRI, which means it also has blood flow to it.  Based on this, the assumption is that the tumor is likely cancer.  Regardless of the diagnosis (which can't happen until the doctors are able to biopsy the tumor), the kidney must come out.  The tumor is 5.7 cm in width (about 2 inches); if it doesn't come out, it will cause problems in the future.

Right now, the biggest issue is getting his back healed.  The MRI and X-ray didn't show any bone or other damage, which is good news.  The pain is probably a combination of the spinal stenosis, the arthritis, and a twist in the wrong direction (as well as the fall he took).

Next step is to get Dad home.  They are running a bone scan tomorrow to get a baseline (kidney cancer will metastasize to the bones) and then he heads home.  After that, all energies need to be toward getting his back to a point where the doctor is willing and able to perform the surgery.

Mom and Dad will meet with the doctor next week to discuss the surgery further, and to discuss options.  Until then, please keep them both in your thoughts.

Comments:

Kelley said...

I love you all, and you are all in my thoughts and prayers. If there is ANYTHING that I can do, even if it's just to pray my damn heart out, let me know!

LOVE YOU!!!!
November 30, 2010 at 8:01 PM