Thursday, September 30, 2010

SEPTEMBER 30, 2010



Are you familiar with Imerman Angels?  They are an amazing organization that I've had the privilege of becoming involved in, and am proud to work with.

From their 
website....
"Imerman Angels carefully matches and individually pairs a person touched by cancer (a cancer fighter or survivor) with someone who has fought and survived the same type of cancer (a Mentor Angel). Cancer caregivers (spouses, parents, children and other family and friends of fighters) also receive 1-on-1 connections with other caregivers and survivors. These 1-on-1 relationships inspire hope and offer the chance to ask personal questions and receive support from someone who is uniquely familiar with the experience. The service is absolutely free and helps anyone touched by any type of cancer, at any cancer stage level, at any age, living anywhere in the world."

Their mission: Imerman Angels provides personalized connections that enable 1-on-1 support among cancer fighters, survivors and caregivers.

If you are a survivor (patient, caregiver, family member, or friend), and are able/willing to help another person through their journey with cancer, please contact IA via their website.  They just tweeted a request, specifically looking for colon cancer angels of all ages, diagnoses, and stages.  Please consider becoming an angel.

I can tell you from my own personal experience, being an angel is truly a blessing.  In all honesty, it has helped me come to terms with my own illness and treatment.  I'm able to use my experience, and those of others I talk with, to help someone who's going through their own battle.  A lot of times, it's a Q&A session, where I'm relaying my experiences with surgery and chemo.  Sometimes, they want to hear my story.  Other times, they want to have someone to tell their own tale to who GETS IT; who won't say the empty words that people often say when they mean well but don't have other things to say.

Need help?  Feel like you'd benefit from these services?  Whether you've been out of treatment for 20 years, 20 days, were diagnosed yesterday, are supporting a loved one with cancer or feel like you need someone to talk with about someone else's diagnosis, you can contact IA to be put in touch with your own personal angel, who will be there to talk with you about the things YOU want to talk about - cancer-related or not.

Questions?  Let me know.   

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

SEPTEMBER 29, 2010


Got new running shoes this weekend, and WHEW!  Did they make a difference, or what?!?!  Very little shin pain, and I have been able to run in them twice now without having to stop due to shin splints.  Very exciting - at least for me.

Last night's workout was 2.7 miles in 43 minutes.  That included, in my defense, a 5 minute warmup.  I didn't include the cooldown.  I am hoping that I can continue this pace (and speed it up a bit) and run the entire 5k on October 30th in under 45 minutes.  I know it's going to be a challenge, but as long as I keep up the training and the desire, I should be all set.  

Holy crap.  ;-)

Comments:

Jill said...
you CAN do it!

What shoes did you go with?
September 29, 2010 at 10:04 AM
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Blogger Allison said...

Keep it up!
I will be there, running in memory of my dad. I have posted a link to your blog on mine. We can beat this thing!
October 7, 2010 at 9:52 PM

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

SEPTEMBER 22, 2010


A couple of things I wanted to update y'all on...

First, I registered for the Undy 5000 here in Phoenix, and I'd like to ask for your support.  This is the third event that I've taken part in, and this year, I'm running the event and running IN the event.  I am the chairperson for the local CCA chapter, and I'm also training to run in the event.  (I like to stay busy....).  If you are able, please consider going to my 
fundraising website and donating.  If you are so inclined, I would love it even more if you would join my team and celebrate with me on October 30th.

Second, I am training to run in the 5k.  I am working with a group called 
Cancer-to-5K, which is just amazing.  They work with cancer survivors and help them get more active, eventually training them to run in a 5k.  Who would have thought three years ago that I'd be training to run anything, much less a 5k.  Now, I'm running 2-3 times each week, working with a personal trainer here in AZ as well as the CT5K trainer, and will be able to complete the 5k in a reasonable amount of time.  Who knows - maybe, I'll run more races in the future.  We'll see what happens - last night, I was running and poof - shin splints so bad I couldn't stand it and was in tears on the treadmill.  OUCH!

What else?  Quite frankly, beyond working, training, chairing the Undy 5000, working other advocacy events, attending personal events (i.e., Natty and Deron's wedding), and attempting to give my children and husband the attention and love they deserve, I don't have time for much else.

On the wedding front, I did get the amazing chance to attend Natty and Deron's wedding.  Deron, as you may remember, is Kim's widower, and Natty was one of Kim's very best friends.  They fell in love after Kim's death, and got married a couple of weekends ago.  It was a beautifully simply ceremony, but the way the two of them radiated the day of the wedding....it was priceless.  Such an honor to be there to celebrate this amazing occasion with them.  The kids were in attendance, and Natty takes such good care of them.  It's so reassuring to see that life does go on, and that amazing things can happen after tragedy.  Truly, this is an example of how to live life to the fullest each day, and not take what you have for granted.  I couldn't be happier for Natty and Deron, and I know deep in my heart that Kim was there with us, smiling.  (Yes, there were dragonflies and butterflies outside the ceremony.....)

The kids are doing well - getting big and just enjoying life.  I really can't wait until the Undy is over - I miss my kids, and I can't wait to spend time with them without having the Undy or some other advocacy event looking in the back of my mind.  38 more days....

I think that's about it.  Just wanted to spend some time updating.  More in a bit...

Comments:

Whidbey Woman said...

Wow. I am exhausted just reading this post! Busy, busy, BUSY!
September 27, 2010 at 4:36 AM

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

SEPTEMBER 21, 2010


So, my intentions were good, but there is no way in the near future (i.e., 2010) that I'm going to able to adequately get to concise posts about the trip to Austin.

Instead, I'll try a pictorial tour and recap.  How's that?


You saw in the last post, Friday was spent getting there, getting dinner, and attending an ice-breaker event, complete with finding out whether our fellow survivors rolled, folded, or crumpled our toilet paper.  It was full of laughter and getting-to-know you games.  We then sat around and told our stories....how we got there.  There were stories that made you laugh, stories that made you cry, and stories that made you want to get up and cheer because we all were fighting this disease, with all we had.  Pretty cool.


This was my take from that night.  He sits on my desk at work.  He's Wayne Duck-sky.  I know - I don't get out much.


Then, off to bed and up the next morning.  Saturday morning came WAY too early for me (remember, Austin is two hours ahead of Phoenix), so there was to be no running for Michelle, despite all the good intentions.  Breakfast was delicious, and we all met in the library to break out into discussions (via a rousing competition of rock/paper/scissors used to break us into two groups).

The finale....Team Edward versus Team Jacob.  I don't know WHY they chose those names (I mean, I get they are from Twilight, but...).  I was on Team Jacob.  He's cuter, anyway.  Right?  I don't know - never saw the movies.  ***I digress***

These talks were pretty emotional and centered around where we are today.  It was quite an eye-opening experience to realize that I wasn't the only one still struggling with the reality of what I've been through.  I suppose that was the point.  :-)

After this kumbaya moment, we headed into another room for painting.  Now, this is something I have ALWAYS wanted to do.  Kind of a bucket-list item, if you will.  You know on PBS, that guy with the poofy afro-like hair that paints "happy trees?"  Yes, I love watching him.  And, I got to paint happy trees.  So.  Happy!  

This is me, Crystal (center) and Eden (right, and my roommate) painting.  This was so much fun, because Crystal is a self-professed Type-A person, and had trouble "letting it just flow." 





My painting - not the most beautiful painting on the world, but it's MINE.  That makes it special.  :-)

After painting, I think we headed to lunch (it seemed like we were always eating), and we had a few moments to just relax.  We hung out outside, on the patio.  Gorgeous.






After this, we had the chance to participate in a class hosted by the resort.  It was billed as a yoga/meditation type event.  Not so much.  I guess the best way to describe it was that this very nice lady who wholly and completely believed in what she was doing tried to teach us methods of breathing that would help us through pain, etc.  At first, I was thinking it was going to be a lamaze-type class.  It wasn't that, either.  She started out by telling us that the technique is used regularly in Russia, but isn't accepted practice in the US (first flag).  Second flag - she told us that by doing these breathing techniques, she was able to get rid of fibrous tissue in her breasts.  Hmmm...wrong crowd, lady.  Third flag - we had to hiss like snakes while holding our hands on the part of our body that hurt.  Oh - there was growling involved, too.  Needless to say, we were very patient with her and didn't talk badly about her until after we left.  At that point, though, all bets were off.  It was priceless.  It has become a running joke, and will continue to be so.  Awesome.


They came prepped for the yoga.  Hmmm.....sorry guys!



Wow.  Just, wow. 


The looks say it all.  REALLY?!?!

After this, we headed to a pizza-making contest, which was fun.  They resort had put out all sorts of yummy pizza toppings.  We all got to custom-make our own version, which was then taste-tested.  Mine didn't win the contest, but was delish nonetheless.  Half sauce, half pesto.  Sauce side had mushrooms and cheese, pesto side had artichoke hearts and cheese.  All of it was topped with fresh basil and oregano.  MMMM....


In line, making our creations...

Yum...

After we were completely stuffed, we headed out for some free time, and where better to spend free time than at the pool.  It is a gorgeous pool with an infinity drop, so it looks like you're going to fall right into the canyon.  You don't, but the effect is cool.  :-) 









After the pool, we headed back to the rooms to get dressed up for dinner.  We were all fancied out, and dinner was, um, well, not worthy of our dress but okay.  We were not as impressed as we had been for the other meals.  Oh well.




The Colon Kids!  We are all colon cancer survivors, and you can imagine how HAPPY we were to meet one another.  Just amazing. 

After dinner, we saw two comedians (who used notes to remember their routines, which took away from their lackluster performances).  After this, the real fun.

YouTube videos and Duct-tape wallets.  Oh yes.  Indeed....


 
The materials
The end results.  Loved it.  Still using the bottom one. 

After this, I went to bed.  I was exhausted. 

Sunday was mainly getting packed to head home, having discussions around where we could get help moving forward, and the trip to the airport. 

Flipping cancer the bird.....awesome! 

This was an amazing, life-changing trip.  Meeting and spending time with other AYA survivors was truly what I needed.  It was spectacular, and emotional, and just.....right.  It was perfect.

I want to go back.  Anyone else up for a reunion?   

Comments:

mtbikernate said...
love it, I had no idea you got a close-up of me before I bolted during the crazy lady's "the bob". And yes, I do have an expression that just SCREAMS "this lady is absolutely off her rocker batshit crazy".
September 21, 2010 at 9:05 AM
Blogger Heat said...
Your painting is awesome! Much better than the one I did at a survivor's day of art at Banner Desert...
September 21, 2010 at 1:26 PM
Blogger jnwhiteh said...

I love the painting! Any chance we could get some reprints? I'd definitely hang it!
September 22, 2010 at 1:55 AM

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

SEPTEMBER 1, 2010


I think it's going to take me a while to get through these posts.....  ;)

After we left the LiveSTRONG hq, we headed up to 
The Crossings resort in Austin.  It's a beautiful place with a wamr, enveloping atmosphere and welcoming people.  Very nice.  It was a little strange getting there, since I hadn't yet met my roommate.  So, I checked in, headed to the cabin to look around, get settled, and figure out what was happening next.

To get to each bunkhouse, you walked on this beautiful path, past several other buildings, relaxation/meditation areas, and brass sculptures (that I wish I had taken pictures of). 


We were on the top floor. 

Gorgeous rooms.  This wasn't mine - LOL!  I stole this from someone else, but the rooms were very nicely appointed.  Except for the towels, which were organic and didn't absorb ANY water.  When we mentioned that to the staff upon checkout, they already knew and were working on a fix.  That's my only complaint. 


The view from our balcony.  Are you kidding me?!?!?

After I met Eden, my roommate for the weekend, we headed down to the main room to find out what we were supposed to be doing, with whom, and when.  Our adventure really began.
Our first artsy activity?  Making name tags.  They had stickers, markers, chenille sticks (or, pipecleaners to you and me!), and all kinds of fun things to decorate our tags.  We had fun making those, and getting to know some of the other folks and the facilitators.  As time wore on, other survivors started to arrive, and we had dinner and a couple of ice-breaker games (tons of fun - asking all kinds of weird questions, playing getting-to-know-you-bingo, etc.).  I won my little rubber duck - isn't he cute?!?!

After a delicious meal (but without getting my carrot cake...), more ice-breaker activities (including finding out whether we all folded, rolled or crumpled our toilet paper), and finding out why they were there (i.e. cancer type, etc.) we headed off to bed.  Or, we were supposed to.  A few of us actually headed to the pool for some down time, which was really nice.  The pool is gorgeous and at night, was so peaceful and calm.  It was fun hanging out with everyone, talking with them in a more one-on-one situation, and (finally) getting our carrot cake.

Thus ended our first night at the retreat.  We had no idea what the next day was going to bring for us.  All I knew at this point was that I was comfortable and happy to be there.  It was so relaxing to be in a place where everyone GOT it. 

Comments:

Amie said...
What an exciting time in your life!! It all sounds like you had so much fun- and my favorite part which is RELAXING!!! lOVE YA
September 1, 2010 at 9:57 AM
Blogger Whidbey Woman said...

Looking forward to more stories!
September 1, 2010 at 8:54 PM